When we are kind to others, it can feel good. It gives us a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment to know that we have helped someone else. But when that feeling becomes the sole focus of our kindness, it can become problematic. The ego can take over, making us believe that we are the only ones capable of doing good, or that our acts of kindness are somehow more important than anyone else's.
This kind of thinking can lead to burnout, as we feel like we have to do everything ourselves and take on too much. It can also lead to resentment, as we begin to feel like our efforts are not being appreciated or acknowledged.
To truly be kind, we need to let go of the ego and focus on the act of giving itself. We need to remember that kindness is not about us, but about the person we are helping. By letting go of our need for recognition or praise, we can open ourselves up to deeper, more meaningful connections with others.
Of course, it can be hard to let go of the ego and its constant demands for attention and recognition. We may feel like we are missing out on something or that we are not doing enough if we are not constantly performing acts of kindness. But the truth is that real kindness requires patience and presence, the ability to be fully in the moment and respond to what is needed in that moment.
In the end, kindness is not about what we get out of it, but about what we can give. When we can let go of the ego of being kind, we can truly make a difference in the lives of those around us, and experience the true joy that comes from helping others.
Stay blessed
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